The connection between rejection and Spirituality

How are you supposed to react when you realize that your friend likes somebody and that somebody already has someone ? What do you do when your friend gets to know about their relationship ? How do you handle the situation ?
  

Rejection ! 

Almost everybody goes through the trauma of rejection but how exactly do we deal with it . Sadly , there is no theory . Some deal with it by gorging on food while some cry their heart out but the pain never fades . Sharing things or pouring your heart out might  make matters worse . No matter how far we go in life our past always haunts us , making our present even more painful . The thought of meeting him or her again in life seems terrible . You feel like hating him  yet you cannot do so because it is not right . You cannot accuse him of something which he hasn't done , it is you who fell for him .
 

Spirituality -yes it works !  

  I might not be the best person to advice you but as a person who has experienced it all , i can say "learn from your past and leave it behind" . Do not let your past intrude your present or have a major influence on your future . I am sure many of you might not agree but spirituality works . Closing your eyes for an hour or so to let  God bestow upon you makes your inner soul peaceful . This will free you of your thoughts , unravel your past , pack it in a box and parcel it . You might be hesitant to try but so was I yet i tried and Voila ! it worked . 

 Life - yes it is meant to be like this 

  We must accept the fact that we as human beings are not immortal . As a part of life we meet people and get apart . Pain and happiness are a part and parcel of it. No matter how much we try to accumulate and hold the sand in our hand it is bound to slip away . Relationships , no matter how dear they are break and leave behind a lot of pain and wrath . The person who gets out of this trap is free from materialistic needs and emotions and ready to take it all upon himself .



 If you ask me 'Why is life like this ?' I would say , it is meant to be like this and yes , life is not a joke , it is the biggest joke !